Breaking the Silence: A Survivor’s Story of Domestic Violence.
- JLU Team

- Nov 21, 2023
- 2 min read

I never thought it would happen to me. I had a successful career, a beautiful home, and a loving husband. He was charming, intelligent, and generous. He seemed like the perfect partner. But behind closed doors, he was a different person. He was abusive, controlling, and cruel. He would hit me, insult me, and isolate me from my friends and family. He would threaten to kill me if I ever left him. He made me feel worthless, hopeless, and trapped.
I lived in fear for years, hiding the bruises and the scars. I was ashamed and embarrassed. I blamed myself for his behavior. I thought I deserved it. I thought I could change him. I thought I had no choice. But I was wrong. I realized that domestic violence is never the victim’s fault, and there is no excuse for it. I realized that I deserved respect, dignity, and freedom. I realized that I had to get out.
One day, I gathered all my courage and called a domestic violence hotline. They listened to me, supported me, and helped me make a safety plan. They connected me with a shelter, a counselor, and a lawyer. They gave me hope and strength. They saved my life.
Now, I am a survivor. I am free from his abuse. I am healing from my trauma. I am rebuilding my self-esteem. I am sharing my story to break the silence and raise awareness. I am not alone. There are many others who are going through the same thing. There are many resources available for them. If you or someone you know is experiencing domestic violence, please reach out to one of these resources for help. You are not alone. You are not to blame. You are not hopeless. You are a survivor. You can break the silence. You can break free.
Please share your story to help others who are victims of abuse.
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